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Surviving Betrayal for man/woman

Have you ever been betrayed by a friend or family member? You were their go to person, shoulder to lean on, listening ear, helping hand, etc.. I mean they can always depend on you for anything because you was just that reliable and your heart is pure and means well. Unfortunately, sometimes it hurts to have such a good heart. There are people in this world that will take advantage of your kindness and sweet gestures and most of the time it is the ones you hold close to your heart. You’re left thinking, “after all I’ve done and after all of the times I was there for you, how could that person do me like this. How could they talk bad about me or how could they not be there for me in my time of need.” It also can be their lack of support. Maybe you’ve accomplished something lately and instead of your friends and family members celebrating with you, they are nowhere to be found. How many of you know that it’s usually your “friends” and family members that are the most jealous of you? Not everyone want to see you succeed and if they do it is only if they are further ahead of you. In life you generally don’t meet to many good, honest, trustworthy, true friends. That’s just how it is. You’ll meet people that you think have good intentions for you, but later on find out they had other motives. Let me tell you it is so hard finding out that your “friend” or family member don’t mean you any good. Since we are human it does hurt. You have to know what to do when that person mask come off and they reveal who they truly are. You see first and furthermore you have to evaluate the people in your life. Then, like my brother and law put it you have to remember, “people are like furniture, you have to know where to place them.” You have to know which ones to hold close and which ones to let go. The ones that you decide to let go you don’t wish them bad. Instead, you still wish them the best and pray for them because obviously something is not going right within themselves for them to even betray you. Having a hard time deciding who to let go, let me help you. Those friends or family members that only call to tell you the latest gossip, the ones that you only hear from when they need something, and the ones that are silent when you’ve achieved something. How about those ones that in order to talk to them you have to pick up your phone to call them. Let go of those one-sided friendships because they are not worth having. Let go of those unsupportive friends and family members. All that is extra baggage that you do not need in your new year. LET THEM PEOPLE GO! Having to let people go should be a lesson to you. It should remind you not to let everyone in your circle. As far as family members, just because you are related does not mean they have to be in your circle. They can be just as toxic as anyone else. They may be the hardest, but LET THEM GO TOO! It’ll hurt for a little while, but you will SURVIVE! After a while you will see you made the best decision for yourself! To be honest that’s exactly what you need to do….PUT YOURSELF FIRST! Now keep being that good, genuine person. The world needs more of you!!!!

"We would do ourselves a tremendous favor by letting go of people who poison our spirit" (Steve Maraboli)

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